The Power of Confidence

Oct 09, 2023

How do you feel about confidence? One of the key character traits every child should possess is confidence. Confidence is a bedrock of leadership and resilience and is pivotal in shaping our children's lives. When we talk to our kids about their identities and what makes them unique, we also build their confidence. Here are a few things you can do to help build your kid's confidence!


  • Positive Affirmation Ritual: Create a daily or weekly positive affirmation ritual with your child. Sit down together and take turns sharing positive statements about yourselves. Encourage your child to use phrases like "I am capable," "I am smart," or "I am kind." Use statements like these and the 40 I Am statements as a fun and engaging activity, and participate yourself. Over time, these affirmations become ingrained in your child's self-perception, boosting their confidence.
  •  Achievement Journal: Start an "Achievement Journal" with your child. In this journal, record their accomplishments, both big and small. Celebrate their achievements together, whether acing a math test, finishing a challenging puzzle, or helping with household chores. As your child sees their progress and successes documented, they'll develop a sense of competence and confidence in their abilities.
  •  Challenge-Based Learning: Present your child with age-appropriate challenges that gradually increase in complexity. Encourage them to step out of their comfort zone and tackle these challenges. Whether learning a new skill, trying a new sport, or volunteering for a project at school, each successful experience will boost their confidence. Be their biggest cheerleader and emphasize that it's okay to make mistakes; it's all part of the learning process.

Confidence is a quality that grows with practice and positive reinforcement. By incorporating these activities into your routine, you can help your child develop the self-assuredness they need to navigate life's challenges and make decisions.