The Goby Parent Journey
Everything about the journey in one place — what it is, how it works, and how to know which option is right for your family.
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The Five Big Things every child needs
Each focus is four weeks long, five days a week. That's five minutes a day — and every single day is already laid out for you.
Safety
Creating emotional safety where kids feel seen, heard, and secure
Identity
Helping kids understand who they are and Whose they are
Gratitude
Building hearts of thankfulness and a positive outlook
Resilience
Equipping kids to bounce back and face challenges with strength
Purpose
Helping kids discover their God-given purpose and direction
THE STRUCTURE
What each focus looks like
Each focus (Safety, Identity, Gratitude, Resilience and Purpose) is four weeks long, five days a week.
That's five minutes a day — and every single day is already laid out for you.
week one
Know it
Understand what this Big Thing is, why it matters, and how it shapes everything in your child's life.
week two
Feel it
Start seeing it in your own home. Learn to recognize what this Big Thing looks like in your child right now.
week Three
Build it
Take action. Create one simple, repeatable rhythm that speaks this Big Thing into your child's life consistently.
week Three
Sustain it
Keep going. Build long-game habits and family moments that make this stick for years, not just weeks.
Every week, the same five days. Always in this order:
monday
Watch
A short video from Toby that introduces the week and tells you exactly what to expect.
TUESDAY
Read
An article, resource, or scripture that builds your understanding and vocabulary for the week.
wednesday
Try
A hands-on activity or printable download you can do with your child — usually just five minutes.
THURSDAY
Talk
Conversation prompts for your family — reflection starters that go deeper than everyday small talk.
friday
Pray
Prayer prompts that help you bring your child's specific needs before God and close the week well.
What happens after you get started?
No hunting for content. No wondering what to do next. Here's exactly how the journey reaches you each day.
step one
Daily emails with next steps
Each morning you receive a short email with one link — today's day. Watch This. Read This. Try This. Talk About This. Pray This. One click. Five minutes. Done.
step two
Days unlock one at a time
The next day's content doesn't appear until you've completed the one before it. The journey is designed to be walked slowly, not consumed all at once.
step Three
Content lives in your library
After purchasing you'll receive login details for your Kajabi account. All your content, downloads, and videos are stored there — accessible anytime, on any device.
step four
Go at your own pace
Life happens. If you miss a day, your content stays right where you left it. The emails keep arriving as you move forward — there's no expiration on your progress.
EVERY FAMILY'S JOURNEY IS DIFFERENT
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Find the right journey for your family
We've created journeys designed around the support you need most right now.
Frequently Asked Questions
How do I know which Big Thing to start with?
What age is this designed for?
Can my partner and I do this together?
What happens if I miss a day or fall behind?
Can I upgrade my journey?
How do I access my journey after purchasing?
READY TO GET STARTED?
You don't need to keep guessing what to do next.
The journey is already laid out. You just have to take the first step.